just because

in my last post, i stated that i met a nice guy ((and that he was a non-member)) at the last church dance and that we were going on a double date with a couple of other friends. my grandmother found out and proceeded to lecture me about him.

she pointed out that most relationships with people outside our faith don't work out and compared me to my uncle's first marriage, which ended in divorce and him being inactive for half of his life. i feel like she doesn't trust me...like i can't judge who's good for me to date and who isn't. it's put me in a bummed mood and i can't seem to shake the sad and disappointed feeling. i just wish she could've given him a chance before she completely distorted and destroyed his entire being.

truth is...i know that most relationships in life won't work or last very long. just because someone is completely different than you or isn't a member of the church doesn't mean that you shouldn't give them a chance. they may surprise you in the end.